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	<title>Frangipani</title>
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	<description>Bisexuality, atheism, polyamory and everything else I don't want to deal with</description>
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		<title>&#8220;Coming Out&#8221;</title>
		<description><![CDATA[How much do you tell people? When do you tell them? How? Should you tell them anything in the first place? Why?
I&#8217;ve been poly for over a year now and haven&#8217;t run into any major issues with my relationships. I&#8217;m happy with my partners, they like each other, I like their partners, it&#8217;s all good.
But [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=frangipaniblog.wordpress.com&blog=2924681&post=98&subd=frangipaniblog&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://frangipaniblog.wordpress.com/2009/10/15/coming-out/</link>
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		<title>Greta on the Radio</title>
		<description><![CDATA[So I&#8217;m a fan of Greta Christina, as you might have gathered by now. Here she is in an internet radio interview on the Feast of Fools podcast titled Living Outside Religion. Not only did I enjoy the discussion, which ranges from talk of atheism within the queer community and atheism in general to how [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=frangipaniblog.wordpress.com&blog=2924681&post=95&subd=frangipaniblog&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://frangipaniblog.wordpress.com/2009/01/27/greta-on-the-radio/</link>
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		<title>Pass Go. Collect $200.</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Happy 2009, people.
I always feel one should have something terribly profoud to say at this time but I can&#8217;t quite bring myself to wax lyrical about the newness of the new year and all that because you know as well as I do that once the tipsy excitement of it all wears off, you&#8217;re going [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=frangipaniblog.wordpress.com&blog=2924681&post=93&subd=frangipaniblog&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://frangipaniblog.wordpress.com/2009/01/08/pass-go-collect-200/</link>
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		<title>Restricting Language</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes I find language incredibly confining, particularly when expressing affection. It&#8217;s all very well when you&#8217;re speaking directly to the object of your affection, but when you speak in the same manner about them with another partner, it&#8217;s hard not to sound like you&#8217;re making comparisons. It seems the more affectionate you get, the more [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=frangipaniblog.wordpress.com&blog=2924681&post=90&subd=frangipaniblog&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://frangipaniblog.wordpress.com/2008/12/24/restricting-language/</link>
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		<title>The 12 Poly Days of Christmas</title>
		<description><![CDATA[You find the darnedest things on YouTube.

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		<link>http://frangipaniblog.wordpress.com/2008/12/17/the-12-poly-days-of-christmas/</link>
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		<title>Family-the-series</title>
		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s a new comedy on YouTube called &#8216;Family&#8217; about what seems to be the life and loves of a polyamorous triad. The first episode just serves to introduce the main characters, Gemma, Ben, and Stuart. They&#8217;re a bit wooden at the moment, but judging from the second episode, they&#8217;re already settling into their roles better.
Episode [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=frangipaniblog.wordpress.com&blog=2924681&post=86&subd=frangipaniblog&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://frangipaniblog.wordpress.com/2008/12/08/family-the-series/</link>
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		<title>I&#8217;m still here</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I am indeed still here and still working much stuff out, but work, deadlines and life in general have been taking up all my time. I have quite a few bits and pieces so, as a way or sorting through them and getting myself organized and writing on topic, here are some of the things, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=frangipaniblog.wordpress.com&blog=2924681&post=81&subd=frangipaniblog&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://frangipaniblog.wordpress.com/2008/11/23/im-still-here/</link>
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		<title>This is not really my issue</title>
		<description><![CDATA[In that I am not an American and do not live in the US, nor plan to, but I did spend a decent amount of time growing up there and I do read a lot of US-based blogs, so I&#8217;m not indifferent to it either. The issue in question is Proposition 8, which will be [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=frangipaniblog.wordpress.com&blog=2924681&post=77&subd=frangipaniblog&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://frangipaniblog.wordpress.com/2008/10/28/this-is-not-really-my-issue/</link>
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		<title>Fear of communication</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been listening to the Polyamory Weekly podcast pretty regularly for a while now and I found the latest show on communicating &#8216;fearlessly&#8217; with one&#8217;s partners quite timely and relevant. Mainly because I don&#8217;t do it.
Oh I do communicate some. I&#8217;ve learnt to tell my partners when I&#8217;m not comfortable with something or how I [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=frangipaniblog.wordpress.com&blog=2924681&post=73&subd=frangipaniblog&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://frangipaniblog.wordpress.com/2008/10/06/73/</link>
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		<title>&#8220;Primary&#8221; and &#8220;Secondary&#8221;</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Lately, the terms &#8216;primary&#8217; and &#8217;secondary&#8217; have been popping up rather more often than usual in the Poly blogosphere (at least in the part of it that I read) as well as in some of the recent discussions I&#8217;ve had with people in the community.
In essence, I understand the usefulness of the terms &#8216;primary&#8217; and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=frangipaniblog.wordpress.com&blog=2924681&post=71&subd=frangipaniblog&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://frangipaniblog.wordpress.com/2008/09/29/primary-and-secondary/</link>
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